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The easiest way to improve your relationship is to pay attention to your partner during life’s small, everyday moments. This video shows you how. As relationship researcher Logan Ury explains, you can choose to TURN TOWARDS your partner in these moments and accept their bids to connect, or TURN AWAY and ignore their bids. Every time you choose to turn towards, you make a deposit in your Emotional Bank Account. Notice when your partner makes a bid. Show interest, ask questions, nod, listen, and put away your screens. Visit for more info: https://info.gottman.com/relationships-and-conflict?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=video&utm_campaign=yt_traffic_nonGRA&utm_term=couples&utm_content=animated Follow Us! Blog: https://www.gottman.com/blog/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/gottmaninstitute Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gottmaninstitute Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/gottmaninst Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/gottmaninst YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/thegottmaninstitute

Certain negative communication styles are so lethal to a relationship that Dr. John Gottman calls them the Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse. They predict relationship failure with over 90% accuracy if the behavior isn't changed. So, what can you do? Practice these four research-based antidotes to save your relationship from certain destruction. Want to learn more? https://info.gottman.com/relationships-and-conflict?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=video&utm_campaign=yt_traffic_nonGRA&utm_term=couples&utm_content=animated Follow Us! Blog: https://gottman.com/blog Facebook: https://facebook.com/gottmaninstitute Instagram: https://instagram.com/gottmaninstitute Twitter: https://twitter.com/gottmaninst Pinterest: https://pinterest.com/gottmaninst YouTube: https://youtube.com/thegottmaninstitute

Ever wonder why some couples make it and others don’t? We’ve found it has a lot to do with the “Emotional Bank Account,” which represents the balance of positivity and negativity in your relationship. As relationship researcher Logan Ury explains, you make "deposits" through positive interactions and you make "withdrawals" through negative ones. In healthy relationships, the ratio of positive behavior (showing interest, asking questions, being kind) to negative behavior (criticism, anger, hurt feelings) is 5:1. Keep your balance high by doing nice things every day for your partner and recognizing when they do nice things for you. Visit for more info: https://info.gottman.com/relationships-and-conflict?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=video&utm_campaign=yt_traffic_nonGRA&utm_term=couples&utm_content=animated Follow Us! Blog: https://gottman.com/blog Facebook: https://facebook.com/gottmaninstitute Instagram: https://instagram.com/gottmaninstitute Twitter: https://twitter.com/gottmaninst Pinterest: https://pinterest.com/gottmaninst YouTube: https://youtube.com/thegottmaninstitute

Here’s the science behind happy relationships! Dr. Gottman outlines the findings, tools and techniques that have helped thousands of couples from around the world build a “Sound Relationship House.” Visit for more info: https://info.gottman.com/relationships-and-conflict?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=video&utm_campaign=yt_traffic_nonGRA&utm_term=couples&utm_content=lecture Follow Us! Blog: https://gottman.com/blog Facebook: https://facebook.com/gottmaninstitute Instagram: https://instagram.com/gottmaninstitute Twitter: https://twitter.com/gottmaninst Pinterest: https://pinterest.com/gottmaninst YouTube: https://youtube.com/thegottmaninstitute

Visit http://TED.com to get our entire library of TED Talks, transcripts, translations, personalized Talk recommendations and more. Infidelity is the ultimate betrayal. But does it have to be? Relationship therapist Esther Perel examines why people cheat, and unpacks why affairs are so traumatic: because they threaten our emotional security. In infidelity, she sees something unexpected — an expression of longing and loss. A must-watch for anyone who has ever cheated or been cheated on, or who simply wants a new framework for understanding relationships. The TED Talks channel features the best talks and performances from the TED Conference, where the world's leading thinkers and doers give the talk of their lives in 18 minutes (or less). Look for talks on Technology, Entertainment and Design -- plus science, business, global issues, the arts and more. You're welcome to link to or embed these videos, forward them to others and share these ideas with people you know. Follow TED on Twitter: http://twitter.com/TEDTalks Like TED on Facebook: http://facebook.com/TED Subscribe to our channel: http://youtube.com/TED TED's videos may be used for non-commercial purposes under a Creative Commons License, Attribution–Non Commercial–No Derivatives (or the CC BY – NC – ND 4.0 International) and in accordance with our TED Talks Usage Policy (https://www.ted.com/about/our-organization/our-policies-terms/ted-talks-usage-policy). For more information on using TED for commercial purposes (e.g. employee learning, in a film or online course), please submit a Media Request at https://media-requests.ted.com

We assume that ending a relationship after betrayal is the best course of action. Yet relationship expert and broadcaster Lucy Beresford passionately argues that the more courageous option is to stay and rebuild that relationship. Drawing from her work with clients (details changed for confidentiality) and from celebrity culture (the rapper Jay-Z spoke publicly about cheating on his wife Beyoncé), in this talk Lucy identifies: - the 3 courageous ways the betrayer and the betrayed can start to repair their relationship; - the 3 things the betrayer MUST do, to rebuilt trust; and - the Number 1 thing all couples must do to protect their relationship from being blown off course Lucy Beresford hosts LBC Radio’s Sex and Relationships show as well as the show Love Decoded for dating website eHarmony, and is an Agony Aunt on ITV’s This Morning. She’s the author of 4 books, including the global best-seller Happy Relationships: at home, work and play. She works as a psychotherapist at The Grace Clinic, London and from time to time at The Delhi Psychiatry Centre in India under Dr. Sunil Mittal. Feel free to get in touch with her on Twitter @lucyberesford or visit her website www.lucyberesford.co.uk Lucy is a writer, broadcaster, psychotherapist and documentary maker – in other words, a global storyteller. She hosts LBC Radio’s Sex & Relationships phone-in show, reviews the newspapers on Sky News, and is an Agony Aunt on ITV’s This Morning. She even blogs for Huffington Post UK Lifestyle. She was shortlisted for ‘Dating Expert of the Year 2015′ by UK Dating Awards, is on the Faculty of The School of Life and is a Fellow of the RSA. Interesting fact? Just the once, off Victoria Falls bridge in Zimbabwe, Lucy did bungee jumping. It changed her life – in a fantastic way. Now she bungee-jumps metaphorically, leaping into the unknown and having adventures. Like TEDx…? This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx